A Note on Sisters
My sister and I are almost exactly 1 year and 6 months apart. We grew up very close, wearing the same size clothing for most of our childhood (meaning: I could steal her clothes) and spending most of our days together. I don’t recall fighting with her a lot but we’ve definitely had our moments (there’s an infamous story involving me chucking a can of ravioli at her...).
I recently traveled with my husband to give her a surprise visit. She just became engaged and I couldn’t be more thrilled for her. She was my maid of honor for my wedding and now it’s my turn to be hers! This season of life is so much fun and I am genuinely happy for her.
I’ve observed many sister relationships. I’m not oblivious to the fact that many siblings just don’t get along. I don’t know if it’s something our parents did right or if it’s just in our nature but, my sister and I are very close, respectful, and considerate of the other. We aren’t catty towards each other, we jokingly humble the other when one’s ego gets a little big, and we don’t judge the other for any of their life decisions because we’ve got the rest of the world to do that to us, why be another hater?
I could go into this deep detailed story of how my sister was a saving grace during a low point in my life but I'll spare you that sappy material for another day.
I now have two bonus sisters as in-laws and they are as sweet as can be. Still, though, nothing competes with the sister bond I already have. I am forever grateful for her and I hope every girl out there gets her a sister. Whether that be by blood or friend, they are important, and I think help us evolve as human beings throughout life.
Do you have a sister? A sister-friend? Do they add value to your life? -Liz
P.S. I have a brother, too. He might get his own special post one day (haha).
